When You Have An Ex Boyfriend To Get Back

May 17, 2009

If you have an ex boyfriend to get back, you might have already tried several things to get him to come back to you. You might have begged, pleaded, promised to change your ways, and even gone so far as to break up a new relationship he might be having. You must remember how you look to him while you are doing these things. You are probably making it harder to get him back if you are acting immature and childish.

Try to think of any behaviors like that you’ve displayed since you broke up, and stop them now. If you are not back together with him yet, then these actions obviously aren’t working. If you are stalking him by showing up where he works or hangs out, then you are scaring him, not showing him that you still love hime. When you have an ex boyfriend to get back, the things that you think you are supposed to do, are actually what is keeping him away.

By changing your behavior towards him, you cant get him thinking more about you. Next time you end up in the same place together, whether it’s a restaurant or a club, when you walk in and see him, do acknowledge him. But instead of going up to him and demanding his attention as you might have done before, simply say hello and go about your business in another part of the room, or explain that since he’s there, you’ll leave to make him more comfortable. Be nice and polite and simply go.

When you have an ex boyfriend to get back, changing your old routine is necessary. If you’ve been calling him 10 times a day, or even 3, stop. Only call if it’s an emergency. Don’t call to talk about the relationship. After a week or so, give him a call just to say hello and that you were thinking about him. Ask him about his life but keep it short and simple.

If he starts to sound suspicious wanting to know why you really called and acting as if all this niceness is just a prelude to your usual behavior, just assure him you called because you missed him and wanted to check in on him. Then say goodbye and end the call on a good note. You want your ex to start to wonder why you have changed, why you aren’t begging or stalking him anymore.

If you’re less comfortable with calling for such a thing, mail him a card that simply says you’re thinking about him. It’s important to give him the chance to make a move. When you have an ex boyfriend to get back, you can’t smother him with attention and affection but instead let him come after you.

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Nicky "The Heart-Mender" is a writer who Blogs about ways to get your ex back, steps for getting back together with your girlfriend or boyfriend, how to fix heartbreak, getting over a break up and how to prevent divorce. She received the pen-name "The Heart-Mender" because while some people are "heart-breakers", Nicky does the exact opposite and helps mend broken hearts and fix damaged relationships.

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