Taking Steps To Get Girl Back

May 7, 2009

When you’ve broken up with someone you care about you have a hard time thinking of anything but how to get girl back. You will have to make some changes if you truly want your girl back. The causes of the breakup need to be examined. Was it something you did, or didn’t do? Is it something that you can still fix, or is it too late?

If it was something you did or didn’t do and you can fix it now, then fix it. Undo something, or do something you should have done already. Apologize and make amends. This alone might not get girl back, but it’s the first step on the path to getting her back. If whatever you did, can’t be fixed right now, at least letting her know that you are willing to fix the issue will go a long way.

Now that you’ve moved past what caused the break up, the next step to get girl back is to make her want you back. This sounds simple and common, but many guys screw this point up. If the relationship ended with her angry, then you have to show her the you that makes her happy again. You are going to have to be patient and forgiving during this point. This can take some time, but if you handle it right, she will want to come back to you.

If you are angry and even sad at this point, be sure to be happy and pleasant around her. Make her remember your good qualities and what she liked about you when you were happy. If she feels you have truly apologized for what caused the break up and she sees your sweet side again, you might be able to get girl back.

When you do see or talk to her, pay close attention to her. Don’t interrupt while you are listening carefully to her. Let her express herself and don’t try to jump into the conversation by telling her she is wrong or that isn’t how she should be feeling. That may be one of the reasons she left you. You won’t get her back by being aggressive in this way.

Are your efforts working? Pay close attention. If you see that she is softening to you by her talking nicer to you or she has been increasing the frequency she wants to see you, this is a good sign. Your efforts to get girl back are working!

If she is impressed by the new you, she is wanting to be around you more.. And that only reminds her why she wanted to be with you in the first place. If her attitude suddenly changes during this point and she doesn’t want to see you as much or she is becoming angry again, pay attention. This is a sign your being too aggressive so take a break and you’ll have a better chance to get girl back.

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Nicky "The Heart-Mender" is a writer who Blogs about ways to get your ex back, steps for getting back together with your girlfriend or boyfriend, how to fix heartbreak, getting over a break up and how to prevent divorce. She received the pen-name "The Heart-Mender" because while some people are "heart-breakers", Nicky does the exact opposite and helps mend broken hearts and fix damaged relationships.

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