If you’re thinking, “I want my wife back,” but you don’t know where to start, there are some simple things you can do to prepare the way to make it happen. While no one step or set of steps are going to guarantee to get your wife back, some things do surpass others in effectiveness. Soon you may not be thinking, “I want my wife back,” but “why didn’t I do these things years ago?”
The first thing you have to do is be extra nice and polite. That sounds ridiculously simple, I know, but when you have been with someone for a while, you tend to take them for granted which is something you are going to need to change. And if right now you’re saying, “I want my wife back” then the advice in this advice applies to you.
No matter how much you wind each other up, it is now important be on an even keel and keep it nice and polite. Unfortunately, this is simpler to do when you’re still together since you see her more often. But it is possible to arrange to run into someone “accidentally on-purpose,” especially if you live in a small town or are part of a close-knit community.
So make sure you run into her often and use every second you’re near her as an opportunity to show her that you can be considerate and polite. The vital thing is to avoid things like getting angry or mad at her.
Sometimes this is a hard thing to judge. You might believe your wife wants you to be jealous and you might reckon her leaving you was a ploy to get you to change the way you act. If you keep thinking of the separation in those terms, you’re in for a disappointment.
Sometimes people do leave someone to make a point and to get you see things their way. But usually they are not playing games and they left because they were miserable with you and dissatisfied with the relationship.
If you’re saying, “I want my wife back!” and you’re trying to fool yourself that she didn’t really mean to leave you, simply wanted to shake you up a little, then you must stop thinking that way immediately.
Don’t make assumptions that could be completely incorrect. But do assume that she had good reasons that made sense to her. And now show her that she had you all wrong.
Starting with being nice and polite, progress to being thoughtful. They are different things, though they’re complimentary. Being nice and polite can apply to everyday situations. Being thoughtful means going that extra mile.
For example, send her a card telling her she’s special. Send it for no real reason, except to show her that you feel she’s special. Surprise her in a way you probably rarely did when you were a couple, and reap the rewards.
Finally, give her some space. You might reckon, “I want my wife back,” but if she’s not ready to return and you push her to hard, you’ll only drive her further away and you will have lost your chance.
OK, well now that you have prepared the groundwork, what do you need to do next to make sure you win her back?
This is where we come in, take you by the hand and show you the way!
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