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August 6, 2013

How to Get Your Lover Back: Successful Strategies for Starting Over (& Making It Better Than It Was Before)

How to Get Your Lover Back: Successful Strategies for Starting Over (& Making It Better Than It Was Before)If your lover has left you…

If your relationship is on the edge, and you feel fragile and out of control…

If you regret walking out…

If you’re not sure you want your lover back, but you need to understand what happened…

You do have a second chance–if you know what has to come first.

Falling in and out of love is a natural process that can be understood and mastered.  Love properly understood can be love regained and kept alive for a lifetime.

This step-by-step approach developed by psychiatrist Blase Harris works.  It has worked for the people in this book.  And now it can work for you.  Dr. Harris’s practical guide shows you how to avoid the common mistakes ex-lovers make, love 100 percent, and get your lover back!

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55 of 55 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars State of the art Spirituality, January 1, 2002
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This review is from: How to Get Your Lover Back: Successful Strategies for Starting Over (& Making It Better Than It Was Before) (Paperback)

When my relationship soured, I was very frustrated trying to get help from counselors (influenced by 12 step programs) who only talked to me about my co-dependency, and “What was wrong with me that I wanted my partner back?” When I was really in a lot of pain, I could hear them thinking “Oh no!, Not another couple who got together without realizing how screwed up they were! Got to get them apart!” Although it’s true that both my lover and I had plenty of areas to where we need to grow, we had a lot of good things going for us too, and I was pleased to find an approach which allowed me to use my strengths to improve the areas where I was weak in the relationship. I’ve never been convinced that wanting to work on a relationship always co-dependency. Stephan Levine, John Welwood, Gail and Hugh Prather, Barry and Joyce Vissel and others all speak of a relationship can be a path of awakening, and all would agree, I think, that there are times when one person has to carry the relationship… Read more

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134 of 143 people found the following review helpful
3.0 out of 5 stars Good for some, not for most, May 20, 2005
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This review is from: How to Get Your Lover Back: Successful Strategies for Starting Over (& Making It Better Than It Was Before) (Paperback)

This book would be very helpful if YOU were the one who left your mate, or possibly if your mate left because he/she felt unappreciated.

For those of us who were dumped, (which is probably most people looking at the book) I would recommend searching for other books about moving on and getting on with your life, even though I’m sure that’s not what you want to hear. But often the best way to get someone back is to get over them.

Women should be especially careful with the ideas in the book, since men often feel smothered and trapped in relationships. (Sending him roses every day = bad idea!) Remember, you don’t want him to be glad you’re gone, you want him to be surprised at how well you’re doing without him! This will make him wonder if he made a mistake, versus confirming in his mind that you are needy/clingy, etc.

The book also lacks specifics. It appears to be written for married couples or people living together, since it seems to suggest that… Read more

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50 of 53 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars This Stuff Really Works!, July 5, 2005
This review is from: How to Get Your Lover Back: Successful Strategies for Starting Over (& Making It Better Than It Was Before) (Paperback)

The best thing about this book is that it helps you gain some control over what seems to be an experience much like driving a car over a cliff at 100 mph while wearing a blindfold.

I first read How to Get Your Lover Back at the on-set of a doomed relationship. It worked then, though I eventually realized that I didn’t want the relationship. I read it again a few years later to save a relationship that very well feels like it will be a forever one. Both times, the guidance provided in this book prevailed.

Not only is it a book about how to regain your loved one’s affection, but also provides guidance on how to truly develop as a person capable of a long-term relationship. It helped me understand how my behavior needed to change in order to gain what I wanted in myself and for my relationship.

Instead of begging and pleading, Harris coaches the reader to modify destructive behavior patterns, those typical “needy,” co-dependent behaviors that only push… Read more

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Nicky "The Heart-Mender" is a writer who Blogs about ways to get your ex back, steps for getting back together with your girlfriend or boyfriend, how to fix heartbreak, getting over a break up and how to prevent divorce. She received the pen-name "The Heart-Mender" because while some people are "heart-breakers", Nicky does the exact opposite and helps mend broken hearts and fix damaged relationships.

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