Understanding Your Troubled Relationship-Can Save It
You are in a relationship and you are finding things pretty confusing. You may be feeling like the relationship has run its course, or that you’re not necessarily being truthful with your self.
You’re only pretending to be happy, or maybe you are fearful about what the next step will be. All these symptoms of a troubled relationship will plague the person and put stress on a probably damaged relationship. One of the most typical emotions is shame over lying and concealing ones real feelings over the relationship and its status. Clearly there was a lot of love in the relationship, but now there are many mixed emotions and elements which are triggering the mixed feelings that one is experiencing.
If you have started to think about your troubled relationship, you will need to brainstorm what kind of things that you want and what you don’t want in your relationship. The latter may include things like not wanting to be cheated on, abused, and ignored and the like. With regards to items that you would like to have happen, these can consist of desiring to grow and develop emotionally. It’s possible to wish for excitement and romance in the relationship. Oftentimes one would like intellectual and spiritual stimulation, like discussions and attending outside meetings and events.
Upon having decided a list of your wants and desires, it is advisable to go through them and determine those that you truly want as well as those you do not want. It is advisable to determine what type of scenario you are in and whether or not it is going to keep on track. Study your partner and attempt to find out if they are capable of growth and working on their own part to assist turn your troubled relationship around. They have to be able to contribute to the repair of the relationship and move it forwards.
In the event that the situation is really terrible, you will need to take a step back and see things with a clear mind. This might merely entail distancing for the short term, in order that you and your partner can take the time alone to evaluate the relationship without having distraction. Without having to live together and handle each of the stresses of being together, the two of you will have a clearer mind that could provide the basis for a true analysis of the situation.
What you might find could be that the romantic relationship is such that you two can’t be together and that you need to finish the relationship. Certain relationships are not meant to be, and that must not discourage you. There will be somebody for you. If you do find that you and your significant other are capable of making things work in your troubled relationship, then make certain you and your significant other are open and communicative. Without communication, it’s going to be near impossible.
A troubled relationship isn’t going to automatically signify that the end is near. What it does suggest is that you and your partner have to take the steps to work things out and move the relationship forward, regardless of whether that’s in the direction of its end or continuation.
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