Get Back Together With Your Ex By Patching Things Up

December 12, 2012

The whole purpose is to help you get back together with your ex wife or girlfriend. Okay, now that we have that out of the way … let’s look at how you can patch things up.

Generally speaking, women have a better idea of exactly what they want in a mate; while men are just happy to be with a breathing human being. The other surprising thing is that it’s normally the woman who wants to get back together, but there’s a catch: if they don’t want to get back together, then nothing will change their mind.

Understanding this will help you to get your ex back. You know that the odds are against you making things work, and that she will be the one who wants to be in control. The real key is that she only needs to feel as though she’s in control. Your first step is to give her plenty of time and space to work things out on her own. There is a great chance that she will start to miss you, but you need to give her the opportunity to miss you. She will continue being sick of you if you keep calling her and won’t leave her alone. Obviously that’s not a smart move. So, if you want to get back together with your ex then you have to break off all contact. It won’t be easy, but it’s your safest bet.

You can’t just look at things that are on the surface. Instead you have to dig down deep and get to the root of the problems that caused the break up. A common reason people give for breaking up is arguing, but if you don’t figure out why the arguments happened, then you will never work things out.

The next step is to work on solutions for the problems you’ve discovered. One thing to keep in mind is that you can’t change anyone but yourself. So, if there are any problem that relate to your ex, then you need to forget them, forgive them, or confront her about them (the first two are much easier than the last one).

If you want to get back together with your ex, then you need to be willing to do whatever it takes. The above steps won’t always be easy, but they will be worth it when the two of you are happily back together.

As you can see, the question of “how do I get my ex back” has an answer.

It may not always be easy, but the things worth fighting for rarely are.

Even if it looks hopeless,  CLICK HERE  and learn exactly what else you
must do and what to say to get your Ex running back to your arms


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Nicky "The Heart-Mender" is a writer who Blogs about ways to get your ex back, steps for getting back together with your girlfriend or boyfriend, how to fix heartbreak, getting over a break up and how to prevent divorce. She received the pen-name "The Heart-Mender" because while some people are "heart-breakers", Nicky does the exact opposite and helps mend broken hearts and fix damaged relationships.

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