It is not easy for you and your ex boyfriend to get back after a breakup. So many women don’t succeed in winning their boyfriend back. It’s not your fault. No one ever handed you an instruction book when you first started dating that taught you how to handle a breakup. Much less, how to get someone back after a breakup.. If you want your ex boyfriend back then use these 5 simple steps to achieve your goal:
1. The first tip which will help you and your ex boyfriend to get back is to get your head straight. You need to get rid of the negative thoughts. You have to stop feeling sorry for yourself. You need to be strong emotionally.
Don’t let your emotion and especially depression keep you down. You can’t get your ex boyfriend back if you emotions are out of control. Negative thoughts will not lead to positive results.
2.Accept that the relationship is over in its previous form. All the wishing in the world isn’t going to allow you to go back in time and change the way things happened. You can’t let your mind keep wandering into what happened in the past.
Focus on what is going on now. If you realize that the relationship of the past wasn’t perfect you’re heading in the right direction and laying the foundation for you and your ex boyfriend to get back together. Remember you are most likely glossing over all the bad stuff that happened. Think about this; the relationship probably didn’t end from one day’s events and it probably won’t get back together over one event either.
3.Don’t stalk your ex boyfriend. Guys just don’t like it when girls become obsessive about them. Especially ex boyfriends. You may want to seek comfort by hearing his voice or seeing his face, but if you really want him back, you must back off for a while. Don’t continuously call him, text or email him, or go to his place or where he hangs out just to see him. Give him time to realize he made a mistake by losing you. He will begin to miss you. If you blow it now, you’ll have a tougher time getting him back later on.
4.Become an object of desire. Get new makeup and clothes. Go get a tan and a new hairstyle. Make sure you hit the gym or the track and eat healthy to make that body look great. When you look good on the outside, you’re going to start feeling better about yourself on the inside. By feeling good on the inside you will be confident and happy. You will project this new image onto others. You will become an object of desire to men. This includes your ex boyfriend.
5.Take it slow. If you followed steps 1-4 your ex boyfriend at some point will get in touch with you. He will want to know why you haven’t contacted him yet. Imagine his surprise when he sees the “new” you from step 4. He will be sorry that he ever broke up with you. Keep your physical contact with him to a minimum, if you do see him. Don’t give in yet, you know have the power.
Seeing you looking your best and seeing that you’ve become confident and happy will make him desire you. If you limit your physical contact with him, this will drive him crazy. It will probably help to ensure that you don’t just jump back into a relationship before you can fix what caused the initial breakup only to breakup a short time later.
These tips may not be easy for you to do at first. You may want to give in and call him or see him, but you have to resist the temptation. These tips will help you and your ex boyfriend to get back after a breakup.
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