Don’t Wait! How To Get Over Someone Fast

April 29, 2009

When a relationship ends, especially if you’re not the one who ended it, how to get over someone fast becomes very important. It’s not always easy to get over a person you’ve been with if you were in love with them It might be pretty easy to get over a relationship that’s lasted 3 months. But if you’ve been with someone for 3 years, it’s hard to get over that person, if at all, let alone get over them quickly. Fortunately, there are some things you can do to speed up the process.

When you’re wondering how to get over someone, sit in a chair in your living room or bedroom, wherever there’s a very strong sense of the other person. Remove anything that reminds you of that person a great deal. This isn’t always easy to do, but every little bit helps. Anything your ex bought for you that’s on display like a stuffed animal or a t-shirt, throw them in the trash. This helps a lot. Replace pictures of you two with pictures of your friends and family, this will help put positive thoughts in your head when you are feeling down.

If you have lots of things that will remind you of your ex, you’re probably wondering how to get over someone without making your rooms completely bare. But even if you picked out practically everything together, you don’t have to remove everything to make this work. Just choose items that have particularly strong memories. It will be nice to give your apartment a little make-over anyways, a new beginning.

If you’re having a really hard time and feel that you can handle it, you can think of all your ex’s bad qualities. Of all the methods of how to get over someone, this is the one where you actually think of your ex the most, so if just the very thought of them brings you to tears you might not be ready for this step. Think of the things you disliked the most about them. If you can’t thing of anything, just move on. But most of us can come up with a long list of things we dislike about someone, especially if they were the ones to end the relationship. This will remind you how bad they were to you and you deserve better.

A popular method of how to get over someone is to simply start dating again. Many people balk at this idea—they think they still love the ex and aren’t ready. You can do this even if you’re still in love with your ex. No one says you have to fall in love anytime soon. But dating or even going out with friends isn’t just how to get over someone, it’s how to keep from feeling sorry for yourself while you try. This will help build your self-esteem and let you know that you are still desirable to the opposite sex. Hang out with you friends on Friday night, instead of the couch feeling sorry for yourself.

Your pain will ease with time even if it doesn’t feel like it now. Get out of the house and re-connect with old friends and have some fun by dating. A few fun, flirty dates really helped me over my last love. Here is a great place to find new people to date, but  If you still want to get back together with your ex then CLICK HERE for the exact strategy that worked for me!

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Nicky "The Heart-Mender" is a writer who Blogs about ways to get your ex back, steps for getting back together with your girlfriend or boyfriend, how to fix heartbreak, getting over a break up and how to prevent divorce. She received the pen-name "The Heart-Mender" because while some people are "heart-breakers", Nicky does the exact opposite and helps mend broken hearts and fix damaged relationships.

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