Can You & Your Ex Get Back Together?

March 17, 2009

If you truly want to get back together with your ex, you have to do a bit of soul searching. You must be totally honest with yourself.  It is always easy after you break up to only remember the happy times you had. You have to decide if you and your ex get back together, will it truly make you happy?   You don’t want to be breaking up again soon!  It is a must that you are honest with yourself and think of both the good and bad times.

In reality, there are a few relationships that truly not worth saving. If you and your ex spent more time fighting than you did having fun together, then you may want to consider moving on. If they were physically or verbally abusive, it was not a health relationship.  If they were mentally unstable, you are better off without them in your life.  If the relationship overall was fun and and happy,  they weren’t abusive or mentally unstable, then these tips will help you and your ex get back together.

Bothering and being pushy towards your ex isn’t a good idea.  If you try to constantly get in touch with your ex; whether its by phone, email, texting, or stalking them you’re going to do more harm than good.  They will see this as a sign of desperation.  This could actually push them further away than bring them closer to you.

Don’t argue, beg, or plead with your ex about your past relationship. It’s easy when you are all alone with your thoughts.  Your mind manifests all sorts of “wrongs” that you may have done.  Even when your ex broke up with you they may have gave you reasons why.  Now, you’re probably beating yourself up over them.  You probably wish you had never done those things.  The past is the past.  This is the present.

If you get it in your mind that the relationship is currently over.  You can’t go back in time, though you probably wish you could.  Concentrate on what is going on now.  The only thing worse than obsessively contacting your ex is to beg or plead with them.  Make promises how you’ll change, etc…This won’t help you and your ex get back together at all.

If you back off, give them some time, and live your life, you’ll be doing yourself a big favor in more ways than one.  You’ll probably become more desirable to your ex, because you’re giving them time to realize what is missing in their life, you.  You’ll also be helping yourself to live a happier, more fulfilling life too.

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Nicky "The Heart-Mender" is a writer who Blogs about ways to get your ex back, steps for getting back together with your girlfriend or boyfriend, how to fix heartbreak, getting over a break up and how to prevent divorce. She received the pen-name "The Heart-Mender" because while some people are "heart-breakers", Nicky does the exact opposite and helps mend broken hearts and fix damaged relationships.

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