Can I Get My Ex Girlfriend Back?

May 3, 2009

If you’re wondering, “How can I get my ex girlfriend back?” then the breakup probably wasn’t so devastating that you think the relationship can’t be saved. You’ll have to hope she feels the same way. If any hurt was caused during the split that you should apologize for, now’s the time to say you’re sorry. Being sorry and sincerely showing it is a good first step.

Can I get my ex girlfriend back by showing my sensitive side?

Well, there’s no guarantee you’ll get back together, it does become more likely when you do the right things. Show her how much you miss her, and how sorry you are. Just pay attention of how she reacts to your gestures. If you buy her flowers and she gets angry and throws them in the trash, then you need to change your tactics.

If flowers or cards frustrate her, for example, maybe she thinks that’s too easy and not enough thought was put into it. Try putting yourself in her shoes and try to figure out something more meaningful. Buy a blank card and write your own verse in it. It doesn’t have to rhyme, in fact it’s better if it doesn’t. Try to honestly express how you feel. Or pick wild flowers and present her with a bouquet you put together yourself. And unless your still in high school, don’t make a mix cd of mp3’s. That won’t work, trust me.

A common complaint among women is that men aren’t thoughtful. Were you thoughtful during the relationship? Now you might be wondering, can I get my ex girlfriend back by being thoughtful? What can I do to get my ex girlfriend back? Well, You won’t know unless you try and every positive thing you do stacks up, making it easier and easier for her to come back to you. Don’t expect things to happen right away, though.

If you spent your relationship rarely doing thoughtful things, or you only did them in the beginning, she’ll probably doubt the things you do now. One gesture can’t erase 10 stupid things you may have done during the relationship. Just be patient, and keep up your efforts. Don’t appear frustrated or angry. Do the thoughtful things because it feels good to make her happy, not because you’re working toward a goal. If these things seem to be a pain to you, then you should re-evaluate your reasons for wanting to get back with her.

How do I get my ex girlfriend back? Can I get my ex girlfriend back by dating other women?

If it’s been a long time since the breakup, and you’re still working on being thoughtful, a casual date seems harmless and may make her wish she was your date, but go too far and it could backfire.

Can I get my ex girlfriend back if she has a boyfriend?

The odds are against it, but if you can show her that she’ll be happier with you than the new boyfriend you’ll have a good chance. Being thoughtful will go a long way toward showing her that. Even if it seems hopeless, don’t give up.

If it appears she’s moved on, still send her a card you wrote just wishing her a great week. But don’t look as if you have any expectations. Your thoughtfulness might really impress her.

These things can help get you on the right track to getting her back. The important thing is to have a step by step plan that will lead you in your heartfelt pursuit.

There is a plan authored by T ‘Dub’ Jackson. It‘s called “The Magic of Making Up.” He has helped over 35,000 couples get back together and you can check it out here: CLICK HERE

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Nicky "The Heart-Mender" is a writer who Blogs about ways to get your ex back, steps for getting back together with your girlfriend or boyfriend, how to fix heartbreak, getting over a break up and how to prevent divorce. She received the pen-name "The Heart-Mender" because while some people are "heart-breakers", Nicky does the exact opposite and helps mend broken hearts and fix damaged relationships.

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- 6 Years ago

You could have misplaced your girlfriend. Now you would like her again, but the challenge is always that the split up is not so friendly and she isn’t going to desire to discuss to you personally any more. You see, getting your ex-girlfriend back again is plainly a matter of figuring out what she wants. Have you been concur ? Otherwise you have your own impression ?

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